If you are looking for practical, child-friendly emotional wellbeing support in Billingshurst near Horsham, West Sussex, you are in the right place.
I support children, teenagers and parents using structured NLP-based coaching sessions designed to help young people feel calmer, more confident, and more in control of their emotions. Sessions are positive, solution-focused and designed to create real change without your child feeling like they are being interrogated or judged.
A trained NLP4Kids practitioner, using structured NLP and child-friendly psychological skills in line with People Building’s nationally recognised professional standards.
Who I Work With
Children (typically age 7+)
Teenagers
Parents who want support and strategies to help at home
Many families contact me when they feel stuck, overwhelmed, or worried their child is struggling more than they should be. Often, parents tell me:
“I feel like I’ve tried everything.”
“They are anxious or emotional and I don’t know what to say anymore.”
“They seem fine at school but fall apart at home.”
“Their confidence has disappeared.”
These are common concerns, and there is support available.
What Makes NLP Different?
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is a practical approach that helps children understand the connection between their:
- Thoughts
- Feelings
- Behaviour
- Habits and reactions
Unlike traditional talking approaches, NLP sessions focus on skills, strategies and emotional tools that children can use immediately in everyday life.
Children often respond well because sessions are engaging, creative, and structured. We work at their pace, using techniques that feel safe and empowering.
How Many Sessions Are Recommended?
Every child is different, but most children and teens benefit from a short programme of sessions.
A typical recommendation is 4 to 8 sessions, depending on the goal and the complexity of what your child is experiencing.
Many parents feel relief after the first session because they finally gain clarity on what is happening and what steps to take next.
Areas I Commonly Support Children and Teens With
Some children struggle to express themselves, misunderstand others, or find friendships difficult. In sessions we can explore:
- how communication works using the NLP communication model
- building rapport and connection with others
- learning how to express feelings clearly
- understanding different perspectives
- improving family relationships
- reducing conflict and sibling rivalry
This can be especially helpful for children who feel misunderstood, shut down easily, or react emotionally under pressure.
Confidence can disappear quickly when a child experiences stress, friendship issues, academic pressure or social comparison.
Confidence sessions may include:
- understanding how thoughts affect feelings and outcomes
- recognising unhelpful patterns and replacing them with empowering ones
- reconnecting with confident memories and strengths
- building a stronger inner voice and self-belief
- learning to handle setbacks without falling apart
The aim is not to create a “perfect child” but to help your child feel capable again.
Motivation is often not laziness. Many children feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck in perfectionism, or afraid of failure.
I support children and teenagers to:
- understand what blocks motivation
- learn how to shift into a more motivated emotional state quickly
- improve emotional regulation and resilience
- feel more in control of their choices and reactions
- develop practical strategies to manage challenges
This can be particularly useful for children who avoid schoolwork, procrastinate, or feel easily defeated.
Parent Support Through NLP4Parents
As a qualified NLP4Parents Practitioner, I also offer supportive sessions for parents.
These sessions are designed to help you:
understand what is driving your child’s behaviour
respond calmly during emotional moments
reduce family conflict
improve communication at home
feel more confident in your parenting approach
Sometimes the most powerful change happens when parents feel supported and clear on the best next step.
Why Families Choose to Work With Me
Families often choose to work with me because I bring both professional experience and specialist training.
Alongside being an NLP4Kids and NLP4Parents Practitioner, I also have:
BSc (Hons) Children’s Nursing
MSc Education for Healthcare Professionals
Experience as a qualified teacher and university lecturer
NLP Practitioner training
Level 2 Counselling Skills
Coaching training through BPP Coaching for Professionals
Over 14 years’ experience supporting children and families, including NHS experience
I also maintain high professional safeguarding standards including:
Enhanced DBS
Paediatric First Aid
Insurance cover
Safeguarding in Education training
Data protection and GDPR compliance
This means you can feel reassured that your child is working with someone who takes both emotional safety and professional responsibility seriously.
Book a Free Consultation
My sessions are based in Billingshurst, and I regularly support families across:
Horsham, Worthing, Shoreham, Storrington, Petworth and Midhurst, as well as surrounding West Sussex areas.
If you are unsure what support your child needs, the first step is simple.
You can book a free consultation where we can talk through your concerns and explore whether NLP4Kids coaching is the right fit for your child or teenager.
Book your free consultation today and take the pressure off yourself. You do not have to manage this alone.
FAQs
I typically work with children aged 7 and above, as well as teenagers and parents. Every child is different, so we can discuss suitability during your consultation.
NLP is not a traditional talking therapy. It is a structured, practical approach that helps children understand emotions, thinking patterns and behaviour so they can build better strategies and confidence.
Most children benefit from 4 to 8 sessions, although some need fewer and some benefit from additional sessions depending on their goals.
This depends on your child’s age and needs. Some children attend independently, while others benefit from a short parent update or parent support sessions alongside.
Yes. Many children struggle with worry, overthinking and confidence issues. Sessions focus on emotional tools and strategies that help them feel calmer and more capable.
Yes. I work with families from across West Sussex, including Horsham, Worthing, Shoreham, Storrington, Petworth and Midhurst.
Still Not Sure What to Do?
If you feel uncertain, that is completely normal. Most parents wait longer than they want to because they are hoping things will improve on their own.
You can:
Request a Callback option at the top of the site, press the WhatsApp Me button or Book a Call
We can talk through what is happening and decide the best next step for you and your family.
Early support often prevents small worries from turning into bigger struggles.